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If I was being honest with the title of this post, I probably would have called it something like “How to write a good first message according to what Single Steve thinks is a good first message, but I’m not really sure you should take my advice because I rarely get responses to my messages”.So, as you can see, it doesn’t really have the same ring, or appeal to someone searching on how to write a good first message for online dating.(Can not add link because I totally made that up.) But as we suggested last week, we are not done with Olivia, our resident hot chick. When I go through my inbox, I do read every message.No, there will be no more stories of woe, no more pleas for sympathy for the complicated predicament of being an attractive lady online. That might sound like a lot of time, but it generally only takes 10-30 seconds to read a message.

Because if they actually thought that the women they were sending the messages to knew that these were generic messages, they wouldn’t be sending them right?Listen to what I’m going to tell you now – the recipient CAN NOT know that you are sending them a form letter. I’ve seen some mass messages that men have sent thinking they’re carefully disguised, and it’s enough to make you weep. What I have instead is an equation, and it is perhaps my greatest Internet dating secret.The perfect introductory email has taken me years of trial and error to develop, and got so good that at one point my response rate was up to 50%. It’s my best friend, and I know every step of it by heart.There was just something about Shadoe987, she was so…attractive, so wholesome, so forgiving. Who knows where she is now…maybe living in Paris with her playful yet reliable husband who’s taught her more about wine than she ever imagined. Because after I didn’t hear back from Shadoe987, I emailed fifteen or so other women with a far less carefully crafted message and you know what? It is more likely that the person you’re writing WILL NOT write you back, no matter how charming and eloquent you are.The kind of girl who would absolutely not judge you for being duped by yet another promotional email from a company you had no interest in. Believe me, Shadoe987 got every bit of my charm and eloquence and she didn’t even thank me before she was killed under that tractor.So I signed up for Match, fired off a carefully crafted message to Shadoe and a few other incomparable young women and waited for the responses to come rolling in. So in order to be an effective Internet dater, your first email should be something quick, delightful, and seemingly personal which then allows you to move on dot org.